{"id":2579,"date":"2021-05-28T06:08:04","date_gmt":"2021-05-28T04:08:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/erfolgskeks.de\/?p=2579"},"modified":"2021-05-28T06:46:01","modified_gmt":"2021-05-28T04:46:01","slug":"go-out-there-and-be-the-woman-you-want-to-be","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cookies4success.com\/en\/go-out-there-and-be-the-woman-you-want-to-be\/","title":{"rendered":"Go out there and be the woman you want to be!"},"content":{"rendered":"

Being successful, does not mean you are the woman you want to be!<\/h2>\n

I had quite my share of success! I did well. If you look at my CV, I have a list of cool events, a nice works place that does well, making an impression on other people and awards to boast with. I sold my first business successfully and took the liberty to start over again, with the things I love doing….<\/p>\n

There are quite some things you may admire…so far, so good. But on the inside, I was quite the opposite! Doubt and fear ruled my day!<\/p>\n

The inside of me was quite the opposite! Whom am I to….?<\/h2>\n

There was this constant doubt, I would not be good enough. There was insecurity I hope did not show. I often down played my achievements. If people did ask me how I got a certain position or a certain award, I would always answer: “Ah, I just was lucky!”, even though I did work hard, took quite some time to study and spend a lot of “free” time to improve myself instead of relaxing. “Whom am I to….” was a common quote in my head. “Whom am I to tell them….?”<\/p>\n

There was this big fear inside me, that I could say something stupid and lose my good reputation, lose my customers. So I would either say nothing or second-guess myself afterwards of how stupid my arguments or reactions have been.<\/p>\n

It was not, that I would not get out at all… but I always had to kick myself. It never felt as natural on the inside, as I have made it look like.<\/p>\n

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Are you a businesswoman, that feels like a fraud?<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Are you a good mother? Are you a successful businesswoman?<\/h2>\n

There was this heavy burden of guilt of not being a good mother while running a business and at the same time, not being a successful business woman working from home, not having a professional office.<\/p>\n

Even though, I knew I did a pretty good job, this constant nagging voice kept telling me, I was not!<\/p>\n

Who am I as a businesswoman? Who am I as a mother? You can read so many self-help books as you like. You will not be them. You are you! The nagging did stick with every other podcast, every other book I would read. On the contrary: sometimes it even made me feel worthy… Why did I not know? Why did I not think about this? See: they are all better, smarter, more successful as you are!<\/p>\n

There have been days I attended networking events, just for being too shy to talk to somebody. Or even better… even to not go there at all. There have been nights I was beating myself up, still arguing in my head, what I should have said a few hours earlier. There was this feeling of being only a bad copy of what I could be. The feeling, that everybody around me knew better, did better, earned more, was smarter, more qualified…. the list was endless.<\/p>\n

None of the awards, none of the titles, nor the nice numbers in my bank account would help! Where was the inner confidence I was trying to show on the outside so badly?<\/p>\n

Go out there and be the woman you want to be!<\/h2>\n

Then, I stumbled over Creatrix\u00ae<\/a>. I cannot even recall the precise moment. It suddenly was there and caught my attention. And I also did something I usually never do: I signed up for a 1:1 phone call. A few minutes of that call, I realized deep within me: That’s it! Something in me “clicked”. I was convinced: I wanted to work with this method!<\/p>\n

And so I did!<\/p>\n

The results are just amazing!<\/p>\n

All the self-doubt, that constant negative head-chatter are gone. The “What if'” and the “I should” vanished and made way for the real me. No more second-guessing, no more beating myself up in the middle of the night. Just me, as I am: Successful and happy! If I can do it, you can too. YOU CAN BE THE WOMAN THAT YOU WANT TO BE!<\/p>\n

Just sign up for a 1:1 call with me and we identify your blocks and barriers that keep you from your individual success.<\/p>\n\n

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